When a man gets to the point he sincerely understands how important his life is to him, he does everything to keep it, he starts getting so intentional in doing things that will enhance his health. People do everything possible to be in health, to safe guard their lives, is there nothing people can’t do to keep their lives? Then it amazes me when men find it so difficult to do everything needed to keep their home , until you are persuaded of the truth that your wife is likened to be as important to you as your life and then do all you can biblically, socially, morally and legally to keep and groom her, you might not get to enjoy that bliss in your home., Ephesians 5: 25 ‘ Husbnds, love your wives even as Christ also loved the Church and gave himself for it so ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself for no Man ever yet hated his own flesh but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the Church’
There is nothing you should not be able to do to make your wife feel loved, cared for, cherished and respected by so doing you are orchestrating marital blissfulness for yourself. Husbands ought to love their wives as their bodies for he who loves his wife loves himself. Your wife is not just your lover, she is likened to be your life, when you understand this , you do all you can to make sure she is good and grows into all she was made for. You must not necessarily be doing all those because you feel she deserves it, no, you are doing all that because that’s what is right to do. You must get to that point that you can give up everything to save your wife.