I don’t know the difficulties and hardship you are passing through that wants to make you give up on that marriage, but I do know that it can still work out. I don’t know the level of both physical and emotional torment your husband has subjected you to, but this I know, your marriage can still be sweet again. I might not be able to tell how much your wife’s character has brought shame and sadness to you, but this I’m sure of, crown of beauty and festive praise can still gush out of that marriage, but that is only if you two will not give up on that marriage and work things out.
It’s not too late to enjoy a blissful marriage, you can still become the sweetest and caring husband your wife desires and deserves, who tells you that you can’t still be that charming and attractive woman that your husband will always want to be with at any slightest opportunity?
Have the two of you really sat down to talk about the challenge(s) in your marriage, your home?
Effective communication might just be the solution to your marriage that is about collapsing.
You two need to deliberately and intentionally create time to talk, as the man, be humble enough to listen to her speak her mind, let her tell you things she will like you do differently in that marriage. And as the woman be patient enough to hear him speak his mind, things he would love you do differently in that marriage, the two of you must listen to each other to understand each other not just listening to reply.
Be sincerely to each other, tell each other what the real issue(s) is/are. Don’t assume he/she knows, be blunt, from what you want in bed, to what you want from the kitchen, talk about anything as long as that is the issue with your marriage, having known and understood what the issues are, work out plans as individuals and as a couple to deal with those issues.
It takes both the husband and the wife to make a marriage work, I challenge the two of you to do everything you can to make your marriage work, if not for any reason, do it because of your child(ren).
” children are a gift from the Lord, they are a reward from him. Children born to a young man are like arrows in a warrior’s hands. How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them! He will not be put to shame when he confronts his accusers at the city gates” psalms 125:3-5.
I pray for as many homes that is about collapsing, the mighty hand of the Lord will uphold such homes in Jesus name.