You will be amazed to know that the question “why are you unfaithful to your wife?” is not as easy to answer as you thought, the truth is that most of the men that are caught up in this act don’t really have answer to why they cheat on their wives, of course, some of them think they do, but sincerely, they do not. I have come to discover that people do the best they can with what they know or the resources available to them, if they knew better they will not cheat on their wives. If not how will you justify a man that has been commissioned to be the Priest and King to her lovely wife get involve in having sex with a woman that is not his wife?
Can a man scoop a flame into his lap and not have his clothes catch on fire, can he walk on hot coals and not blister his feet? So it is with the man who sleeps with another man’s wife and that will cost him his honour and life.
I challenge you to be a faithful husband to that woman, your wife, the mother of your children. Of course occasionally you might find a Lady that is not your wife attractive; it might even be so serious that you might tend to think that she would have been a better and perfect wife at that point the next thing to do is not to run into her arms like a bird flying into a snare, but let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you, let her be a loving deer & a gracious doe that she is to you, let her breast satisfy you always and remain captivated by her love always. (Proverbs 5:15-20).
Did you just say your wife is not loving and not a blessing to you in any way? She is, give her the enabling atmosphere and you will be so amazed at how loving she is.
Make her the type of woman and wife you desire. Do you want a loving, caring and sensitive wife? Then, make her. Sow what you want and you will get it back.
Its pertinent I tell you this, the bible says without God we can do nothing, so I challenge you to allow him to help you break away from that act and give you the grace to be a faithful husband to that loving and beautiful wife of yours, accept Jesus into your life today, and you will ever be glad you did.
I celebrate and value you greatly.