You might be surprised to know that the silent cry of most wives is “Romance Me”.
At the top of most women’s list when it comes to what they want from their husbands is ROMANCE. But your wife’s idea of romance and your idea of what it means, may be two different things.
Romance in the male mind is what he does in order to get his wife in the right frame of mind for sex, that isn’t the way a woman thinks at all. But whether or not she is able to respond fully to you in your physical relationship will depend largely on whether or not you supply her with her idea of romance.
If you really want to be the man among men, the husband she practically adores and worships, you will need to learn and start romancing your wife. Probably you don’t even know what to do and how to start, let me give you a timeless principle on how to go about it. Its called “The Principle Of Thoughtfulness” Hebrews 10:25 says “Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works”. You need to be thoughtful, be deliberate and intentional about thinking on what to do, say and how to act to make her happy and feel loved. You must consciously think, imagine and ask yourself questions on things you can do to make her feel cherished and loved.
Let me ask you some questions may be that will give you a clue of how to romance your wife.
- How often do you tell her how much you love her?
- What name do you call her?
- When last did you Cook for her?
- How often do you buy her gift?
- When last did you plan a weekend away without your children?
- When last did you touch her hair, help her on with her dress?
It’s so easy to be thoughtful once you set your mind to it. I challenge you to start romancing your wife and you will be amazed of the wonders it will bring out of her.
I value and celebrate you dearly
I value and love you deeply